Gaslighting in Relationships: How to Recognize and Avoid Emotional Man
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Gaslighting in Relationships
Date de début
19.02.2022
Date de fin
21.02.2022
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The bonds you build with a spouse are deep, your self identity becomes built around being there to support each other. Destroying your definition of yourself with infidelity isn’t some primal physical urge, its the culmination of years of silent depression. And like others have said, its not like everything is going to shit, its so easy to amuse yourself for years till you wake up and see how fucked it all is. Try if you can imagine what it might be like to wake up every day feeling like you are failing the person you are supposed to love the most, no physical stimulation or cheesy romantic ploy from him can summon up that fire inside that made sex the kind of sex you want to have forever. You feel jealous that all he has to do is simply get it up, which he can seemingly do on command, hell, in his sleep. You think all he is wants is to just blow a wad like you are a breathing tube sock. Simultaneously you want so badly to be flattered by his desire, why doesn’t being wanted make you want to want?!? Your plagued by fears of infidelity that you have no ground to bring up, maybe you hire a private detective and feel like a traitor for assuming the worst. Or worse some random interaction with just the right guy makes you feel all the feelings you have been trying so hard to conjure up for him. Maybe you turn to 50 shades of grey esqe novels as the invisible cheating partner, its only going to make you sick with yourself when you realize how pathetic it all is. You spend hours wondering whats wrong with you and the sickness in your brain starts saying maybe you should just cheat on him for real. Or maybe like us you lay it all out on the table, with renewed strength in your bonds and the realization that being wanted by anyone else in the world isn’t going to fill the void in your heart you try to work it out. And all your TAKES TWO workings might at best get you hot and bothered occasionally, but more than likely it just turns into another hobby to pass the time while you wait for the kids to finish college so you can travel together and feel like it at least makes sense to not be physical at this age. Because like it or not there will be an age it all stops working, its just youthful ignorance that makes you think its going to be when your hair is grey not when you are 35.
Sometimes it doesn't get better5 years ago
1. I’m not a millennial. 2. Have you read ANY other of my posts?
Emily Macintosh5 years ago
Ugh thank you for sharing.
https://bit.ly/4jTpooa
https://bit.ly/4jQJ63X
https://bit.ly/4jTzaa0
https://bit.ly/3EBfDLp
https://bit.ly/4hRwpEk
https://bit.ly/4jS6iim
https://bit.ly/4gFF5wD
https://bit.ly/4jXPiHI
https://bit.ly/3EBfB6f
https://bit.ly/4icLS27
https://bit.ly/4hUUOcc
The bonds you build with a spouse are deep, your self identity becomes built around being there to support each other. Destroying your definition of yourself with infidelity isn’t some primal physical urge, its the culmination of years of silent depression. And like others have said, its not like everything is going to shit, its so easy to amuse yourself for years till you wake up and see how fucked it all is. Try if you can imagine what it might be like to wake up every day feeling like you are failing the person you are supposed to love the most, no physical stimulation or cheesy romantic ploy from him can summon up that fire inside that made sex the kind of sex you want to have forever. You feel jealous that all he has to do is simply get it up, which he can seemingly do on command, hell, in his sleep. You think all he is wants is to just blow a wad like you are a breathing tube sock. Simultaneously you want so badly to be flattered by his desire, why doesn’t being wanted make you want to want?!? Your plagued by fears of infidelity that you have no ground to bring up, maybe you hire a private detective and feel like a traitor for assuming the worst. Or worse some random interaction with just the right guy makes you feel all the feelings you have been trying so hard to conjure up for him. Maybe you turn to 50 shades of grey esqe novels as the invisible cheating partner, its only going to make you sick with yourself when you realize how pathetic it all is. You spend hours wondering whats wrong with you and the sickness in your brain starts saying maybe you should just cheat on him for real. Or maybe like us you lay it all out on the table, with renewed strength in your bonds and the realization that being wanted by anyone else in the world isn’t going to fill the void in your heart you try to work it out. And all your TAKES TWO workings might at best get you hot and bothered occasionally, but more than likely it just turns into another hobby to pass the time while you wait for the kids to finish college so you can travel together and feel like it at least makes sense to not be physical at this age. Because like it or not there will be an age it all stops working, its just youthful ignorance that makes you think its going to be when your hair is grey not when you are 35.
Sometimes it doesn't get better5 years ago
1. I’m not a millennial. 2. Have you read ANY other of my posts?
Emily Macintosh5 years ago
Ugh thank you for sharing.