The Questions Men Are Too Afraid to Ask Women
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24.12.2021
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27.12.2021
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Détails
Ladies We Need Answers
The Difference Between Girls and Women
On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?
A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s
The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle
10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single
The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men
Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger
Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me
The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have
Don’t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!
Tickle Me Cheater
Bhetti PERMALINK*
October 20, 2009 8:42 am
There’re so many contradictory messages here. It seems to me that it really depends on the man. You have to tailor it to the man and, as aoefe said, to yourself.
I think we women naturally do what we’re supposed to based on what we’re feeling for the specific man in question. It is simply the subtleties of it in terms of trying to minimise the risk of some Fifth Horseman type adding you to the harem as the ‘best option’. That’s the hard part: not allowing a man you’re attracted to to use you and leave room for him wanting more but still giving enough to hold him.
It is about choosing the right man: the more PUA alpha he is, the more of a high risk proposition he is either way you choose to act.
lovelysexybeauty PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 9:27 am
aoefe – Good point about not overthinking. For some of us though, how to act around men didn’t come naturally and we had to spend some time being very self-aware to get to the point where we could develop those instincts.
(For me, I was very sheltered and stuck between two pretty different cultures – a late bloomer with social skills. :-) My natural instinct used to tell me to run run run if a guy I was attracted to approached me. Not only out of guilt for the feelings I was having but also sheer nervousness. And having seen male relatives use women for fun and marry the good girls… and never, ever wanting to be the type that guys use but the type that guys marry, and all that.)
aliasclio – Yes, many Alpha Men do marry. Plus being Alpha is continuum. Some guys classify Alpha Men as those who basically live like Hugh Hefner. In that case, <0.00001% of the world's population is Alpha Male. Is that really true?
And Betas do get more discouraged, I think that's a good point. Betas can be guys who get mad about women being flaky.
The Difference Between Girls and Women
On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?
A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s
The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle
10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single
The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men
Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger
Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me
The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have
Don’t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!
Tickle Me Cheater
Bhetti PERMALINK*
October 20, 2009 8:42 am
There’re so many contradictory messages here. It seems to me that it really depends on the man. You have to tailor it to the man and, as aoefe said, to yourself.
I think we women naturally do what we’re supposed to based on what we’re feeling for the specific man in question. It is simply the subtleties of it in terms of trying to minimise the risk of some Fifth Horseman type adding you to the harem as the ‘best option’. That’s the hard part: not allowing a man you’re attracted to to use you and leave room for him wanting more but still giving enough to hold him.
It is about choosing the right man: the more PUA alpha he is, the more of a high risk proposition he is either way you choose to act.
lovelysexybeauty PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 9:27 am
aoefe – Good point about not overthinking. For some of us though, how to act around men didn’t come naturally and we had to spend some time being very self-aware to get to the point where we could develop those instincts.
(For me, I was very sheltered and stuck between two pretty different cultures – a late bloomer with social skills. :-) My natural instinct used to tell me to run run run if a guy I was attracted to approached me. Not only out of guilt for the feelings I was having but also sheer nervousness. And having seen male relatives use women for fun and marry the good girls… and never, ever wanting to be the type that guys use but the type that guys marry, and all that.)
aliasclio – Yes, many Alpha Men do marry. Plus being Alpha is continuum. Some guys classify Alpha Men as those who basically live like Hugh Hefner. In that case, <0.00001% of the world's population is Alpha Male. Is that really true?
And Betas do get more discouraged, I think that's a good point. Betas can be guys who get mad about women being flaky.