Finding Common Ground: Resolving Conflict Constructively
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Date de début
25.03.2022
Date de fin
25.03.2022
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Description de l'activité
He Had an Affair Because I Stopped Initiating Sex
He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat
He Lost Interest in Our Marriage
Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job
He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I'm Sick of It
Commitment Jitters
Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance
Bi Bi Love
Dealing With Your Partner’s Bedroom Confessions
Can His Squalor Be Squelched?
Asunder Down Under
Conquering Long Distance Dating
Coveting a Coworker
After all the crazy stuff happened, I thought I had met the perfect guy. He was smart, hard-working, funny, caring, and matched with me on so many different levels. We were in a long distance relationship together for 2.5 years, and then we decided to move to a whole different part of the country together, move in, and get married. We had this bright future planned for us. Then we had a big fight, then boom, he cheated on me, twice. He was actively looking for relationships online, while telling me how he loved me and how he couldn’t live without me. It still amazes me how we had this perfect relationship and we were the closest couple I had ever seen, then there was a bump in the road and he looked for a way out. I can vividly remember the moment when I found out that he cheated. I was completely numb, everything just went cold. It hurt so much that I wish I was dead. What hurt me the most was the fact that he never acknowledged his mistakes. He said I made him mad so he cheated, and that I wasn’t religious like him so his moral values don’t apply to me, and God would forgive him for trying to find a good Christian girl while he was planning on moving in with me. He made me feel used, worthless, completely stupid. I tried to be friends with him after we broke up, but I have so much anger built in myself that I just can’t let go.
The worst part about cheating is how it makes the people involved feel. The anger, the resentment, the sadness, the disappointment, it brings out the worst in everyone involved, except maybe for the cheater him/herself. I completely agree with you – if he cheated, he doesn’t give a shit. A person truly in love would never disrespect and purposely hurt another person in this way.
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He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat
He Lost Interest in Our Marriage
Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job
He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I'm Sick of It
Commitment Jitters
Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance
Bi Bi Love
Dealing With Your Partner’s Bedroom Confessions
Can His Squalor Be Squelched?
Asunder Down Under
Conquering Long Distance Dating
Coveting a Coworker
After all the crazy stuff happened, I thought I had met the perfect guy. He was smart, hard-working, funny, caring, and matched with me on so many different levels. We were in a long distance relationship together for 2.5 years, and then we decided to move to a whole different part of the country together, move in, and get married. We had this bright future planned for us. Then we had a big fight, then boom, he cheated on me, twice. He was actively looking for relationships online, while telling me how he loved me and how he couldn’t live without me. It still amazes me how we had this perfect relationship and we were the closest couple I had ever seen, then there was a bump in the road and he looked for a way out. I can vividly remember the moment when I found out that he cheated. I was completely numb, everything just went cold. It hurt so much that I wish I was dead. What hurt me the most was the fact that he never acknowledged his mistakes. He said I made him mad so he cheated, and that I wasn’t religious like him so his moral values don’t apply to me, and God would forgive him for trying to find a good Christian girl while he was planning on moving in with me. He made me feel used, worthless, completely stupid. I tried to be friends with him after we broke up, but I have so much anger built in myself that I just can’t let go.
The worst part about cheating is how it makes the people involved feel. The anger, the resentment, the sadness, the disappointment, it brings out the worst in everyone involved, except maybe for the cheater him/herself. I completely agree with you – if he cheated, he doesn’t give a shit. A person truly in love would never disrespect and purposely hurt another person in this way.
Reply